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  • Posted On: September 6th 2021 at 10:59 pm | 1 Comment
    Categories: Personal life, Rants

    Singapore is on track to another lockdown. I think this is the fourth lockdown if it really happens. We are encouraged to work from home and if you want to go back to office, we need to do Antigen Rapid Test (ART) weekly. We are also encouraged to reduce social gatherings to once a day and no workplace interactions from 8 Sep 2021 onwards.

    Hopefully things get better after 2 weeks with the upcoming guidelines, otherwise we will be welcoming our fourth lockdown. :sad: Oh well. At least we can still dine in and shopping malls are not closed. Anyway, our shopping malls are not closed during a lockdown. It’s only the first lockdown that has shopping malls being forced to close.

    I’m getting a bit of backache after carrying my violin and my heavy bag to go shopping yesterday. Gone are the days where I am able to shop with heavy bags and my violin. Oh well. I need to use smaller bags to force myself to carry only what I need and not anything more. I’m becoming old after all. :sigh:


    Posted On: July 24th 2021 at 4:22 pm | Add a Comment?
    Categories: Personal life, Rants

    Hello everyone! I haven’t been blogging as frequently as I should be. In fact, I hardly use my personal macbook these days. I’m usually on my iPhone and occasionally on my iPad. I also always play Animal Crossing on Nintendo Switch.

    COVID-19 is still here to stay. We still can’t travel out of the country too. I see more folks shopping at luxury stores too. Like the massive queue when Chanel launched their new collection or the Factory 5 series. I am guilty of it since I started luxury shopping during the pandemic but I have since slowed down in it. Money don’t drop from the sky for me, sadly. :smile:

    Singapore has entered our third lockdown again, this time due to horny guys who visit KTVs and destroyed the rest of the nations’ plan to reopen the economy and start to travel overseas in end August. COVID-19 virus is always on a lookout for the weakest link and Singapore’s weakest link that cause third lockdown is horny guys. :angry:


    Posted On: June 6th 2021 at 9:44 pm | 1 Comment
    Categories: New stuff, Personal life, Rants, Shopping

    I finally manage to find a way-below-retail Hermes rodeo bag charm in MM size. I got it from a consignment store (Luxlexicon). I previously got a horse shoe bag charm that is below retail too. Both were listed as New condition and it didn’t look used as well. Pretty good deals cause I doubt I will be paying retail price from Hermes. Anyway, both bag charms are almost impossible to get it from Hermes store anyway. I’m fine with getting them from consignment stores and at a discount.

    I feel like I spent more during this pandemic. I thought I will spent less since I save on commute and eating out when I am working from home but I discovered luxury shopping and that didn’t helped my wallet.

    Luxury shopping is really expensive and definitely need to be managed. I also cannot keep buying stuff and end up not using all of them.

    Time to slow down in shopping and start saving more money. Gambatte, Sakura!


    Posted On: May 7th 2021 at 6:24 pm | Add a Comment?
    Categories: New stuff, Personal life, Rants, Shopping

    What is The Starry Co? It is a jewellery shop using existing and classic designs inspired by fine jewellery brands such as Tiffany and Co, etc. Because it is a classic design that many big brands use, there aren’t any copyright issue from what I can see. It’s made using silver and diamond simulants (basically crystals that looks like diamonds from a distance but completely not like diamond on closer look).

    In their introduction about the brand: The Starry Co. wants to put some sparkle into your everyday life! We genuinely believe that beauty and glamour should be accessible to everyone – and that’s exactly what you get when you purchase a beautiful diamond simulant piece from The Starry Co. Our affordable diamond simulant jewelry gives you the chance to shine with the same level of brilliance and luxury of real, natural diamonds – without the price tag.

    The brand is started by Debbie Soon, the wife of Jianhao Tan – one of the top influencers and YouTuber in Singapore. I love his videos and videos from Trevmonki (also under his company – Titan Digital Media). So yes, there are many social media advertisements for each launch and they are very good at taking photos of their products. Sadly, the bracelet does not look like the photos in real life. They operate solely online so you cannot see the product until you buy it and received it.

    Given the limited number of pieces launched for each collection, there is a huge FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) created among their audience. I am glad that I got the bracelet when I managed to place the order within 2nd minute of the launch. However, thinking back, I guess I would have saved S$118 if I missed out on the bracelet given how poor quality the bracelet turns out to be. Sigh. :sigh:

    I bought my new The Starry Co piece – Quinn bracelet on 27 March 2021. Like I said earlier, it costs S$118 and due to the social media marketing, I thought it was a good deal. It arrived on 1 April and it was damaged. 1 of the diamond simulants is badly damaged. It looks like something poked it and it got chipped off. It is very visible and I spotted it the moment unpacked it.

    I have reported it to their support email, left them a message on their Instagram and now a comment on their latest post.

    Luckily they saw my Instagram comment on their post and have since then sent me a replacement piece. :smile:

    However, I will never buy anything from The Starry Co. The pieces are overpriced for the quality and it is only sparkly when you have a light shining on it. It doesn’t shine under normal room light or sunlight.

    There is a reason why they don’t have a storefront. Probably because their pieces won’t look as nice as how the photos are taken. If it is 50% discount, I might reconsider it and buy it as a fashion jewellery. But at S$118 for a crystal tennis bracelet? No thanks. I rather save the money for better crystal ones or buy a cheaper one from Shopee where I can get faster support when I report on damaged goods, instead of posting on their Instagram posts to get their attention.

    This is just my personal opinion. I value quality over quantity and I do not like to pay so much for costume jewellery which I know I can get it at a cheaper price.


    Posted On: March 15th 2021 at 10:17 pm | 2 Comments
    Categories: Fashion, Friendship, Insights, Korean related, Makeup, Personal life, Rants, Shopping, Wants, Work

    I was watching YouTube and saw 1 video from a YouTuber about minimalism spending. I thought it will be a good topic to talk about in ViolinStar.NET too. I haven’t been blogging as much as I hope to this year. I also haven’t post any photos on my Instagram accounts in 2020 and 2021 so far.

    One of the first few things I realised after turning 30 in last December is that my health/body is not as strong as before. I can’t stay up late without impacting my mornings. I really need at least 7 hours of sleep everyday. I can no longer work so hard because I will get burn out. I need to pace myself in both personal life and work life.

    I also need to save up for the future and rainy days. After seeing 1 of my friends who got cancer when she is the same age as me back in 2019, I cannot underestimate the amount of money and insurance coverage I need to protect myself. Having a deep pocket provide more options for treatment too. Insurance is important if you don’t have really deep pockets. Hence, I really should not spend wastefully like what I did in my 20s.

    These are the categories that I want to spend less in my 30s as I learn from my mistakes in my 20s after reviewing my expenditure in my 20s. Yes, I do track all my expenses ever since I started work in an Excel file. :smile: I should have done it over MySQL on hindsight but oh well. Data analytics will be much easier if I am not tracking in Excel. :sigh:

    (1) Buy less lower quality bags

    I spent quite a bit of money buying fashion bags that are either in trend or of poor quality (such as Charles and Keith) when I was in my 20s. I even bought a Steve Madden bag from San Francisco. I thought it was leather but it turned out to be PU. It only lasted for a few months? It really cannot carry heavy stuff and it was the most expensive backpack I ever own at that time? It was US$54.44 (S$79.16) and only lasted a few months. :sigh: I have now discovered Fjallraven Kanken and got the second original kanken bag in Beijing after my first bag lasted for more than 2 years. We are talking about more than 2 years of daily use. It could have lasted even longer if I didn’t see a sale at Beijing store and decided to replace my old, dirty and worn out bag.

    I will still buy bags but I think I only want to buy the better quality ones. For backpacks, I am sticking to Fjallraven Kanken or Thule. For other bags, I think I want to either get real leather bags which I can send for servicing/repairs or nylon/cloth bags which can be dried which I can bring out on rainy days.

    (2) Buy less makeup

    I spent my 20s exploring different types of makeup and also going for makeup classes. I bought mascara that I end up throwing away after using 2 to 3 times? Yeah, it’s the cheap ones from Innisfree/Watsons but to use them for less than 5 times before throwing it away because they have a expiry date of 6 months is just too wasteful. I still like lip and eye brow makeup though. Sadly, this pandemic has force us to wear masks all the time when we are out so there’s really no need for lip makeup anymore. Maybe when we don’t need to wear masks, I can go back to using lip makeup again. :happy:

    I definitely want to buy less mascara or eye shadow palettes or eyeliners since I am just too lazy to put on full makeup and these items expires too fast for me to use them up.

    (3) Buy less costume jewellery

    When I am in my 20s, I really love to buy earrings and sometimes necklaces. I used to buy at least 20 pairs of earrings when I go to South Korea for vacation. I buy earrings and necklaces in whichever country I go to. I have some that I really love and some are just brand new which I haven’t wore. I have some that is very dressy which I can only wear when I go for wedding lunch/dinner. I really like accessorising my outfits and spend quite a bit on them. It makes me very sad and I can’t bear to throw away the ones that has either tarnished or rusted. As a result, I am always running of space to store them. :sad:

    I have learned to buy fine jewellery in recent years. These don’t rust and I can send them for professional cleaning at the jewellery stores. My first fine jewellery necklace is a silver necklace from Tiffany and Co. It’s from their Return to Tiffany collection and I bought it when I went to San Francisco in 2018. I remembered walking in to want to buy the music note necklace but they don’t have it so I fall back to my backup plan of the Return to Tiffany necklace. I have sent it for professional cleaning in Singapore boutiques numerous times. Silver is not really a fine jewellery piece but since I paid a premium (because it is Tiffany and Co), I decided to consider it as a fine jewellery piece. :smile: I was quite sad when my pendant was badly scratched after using for some time. I even brought it to ask if they can polish it and the sales associate told me it costs S$40 for polishing. :shocked: Ever since then, I decided not to get another silver piece for a few hundred of dollars. It’s either yellow gold or white gold for me.