This is a very long episode but I have to say it is very insightful. Definitely something about the female dropping handkerchiefs kind of analogy that I think I might want to try.

Also the part on not finding someone who is your equal. Decide what you want and see if you can fulfil what you want in other types of relationships, such as colleagues or friendships.

Knowing what you are and be able to gauge the character of others is good too. Know what you lacks and find those aspects in others.