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Posted On: July 20th 2010 at 11:28 pm | 1 Comment
Categories: Articles, Optimism, Personal life, Rants

It’s my last day at work tomorrow. Yes! It’s the day that I have been looking forward for weeks. I no longer need to wake up early, until school reopens, after tomorrow. :smile: I no longer need to worry about having lunch alone. I got solo lunch time twice but managed to delay my lunch time on the first time and my friend delayed her lunch time on the second time. So it’s like I managed to find lunch buddies to have lunch together although I am suppose to lunch alone at a particular lunch timing.

It wasn’t that boring at work today. Kit Qin was sharing with me about a book he read on love languages. Then he went on the explained the different type of love languages.

The first type of love language is words of affirmation. Basically, it’s all the sweet and mushy words said by the guys and empty promises made in a relationship. Okay. I don’t need to state it quite explicitly here, do I? :grin:

The second type is acts of service. That’s when a guy tries to help the girl in everything, especially in studies. Examples include teaching her in school work, helping her to do her homeworks, etc. Well, this can make a girl dependent on the guy and slowly fall for him. Guys are cunning, aren’t they? :crazy:

The third type is sending gifts. It’s just spending money to buy gifts for the girl he likes. Well… The girl gets to benefit from all the free gifts. Isn’t that good? More free and expensive gifts, more attracted to that guy. The guy has to spend more money (ie. invest) in order to get the girl’s heart (ie. reaping the returns). Sounds like a financial planning for the future… That’s the basic idea behind this type of love language. Come to think of it… After a breakup, the girl still gets to enjoy the free gifts from the guy. Isn’t that economically friendly for the girl? :oops: It’s like

The fourth type is physical touch. It’s obvious. I don’t think I need to explain further. :oops:

The last type is quality time. More time spent with the guy he likes means higher chance of the girl accepting him. It’s like following the direct proportionate relationship. Going out with her in an excursion to the gardens, zoo, science centre, etc can increase her affection towards the guy. Haha. :smile: This reminds me of my friend, having monthsary and anniversary celebrations with her boyfriend. One can’t helped to be envious of her. Imagine the planning needed behind each monthsary celebration. It’s like the guy has to plan 12 unique celebrations in a year. :shocked: An proportionate increase in quality time spent with the girl, a more than proportionate increase in successfully winning the girl’s heart. For guys who wooed more than 1 girl at a time, time management will be crucial in this type. However, such guys are meant to be dumped.

Then I dragged Raymond into the picture by saying that he possessed all the skills of all love languages since he always managed to convince aunties (also know as middle aged woman) and engage in a long conversation with them. Then he defended himself by saying that when I become auntie, he can convince me. Actually, I sense a double meaning. :oops: Anyway, I replied him by saying that bu the time I become auntie, he would have become ah pek (also known as old man). Kit Qin continued by saying that guys have shorter life span so Raymond may have died when I become auntie. ROFL! :happy:  That ended Raymond’s attempt to defend himself.

This reminds me of a call he returned today. He called back one of the customers and it seems that the customer left his husband’s contact number for Raymond so that he can call her back. It’s funny, isn’t it? The funniest thing is that when Raymond called her back, the husband is like asking who is he and why did he call his wife. :smile: Well, I didn’t hear what the husband said but from the replies Raymond gave, I can inferred what th e husband had said. Then the husband gave Raymond his wife’s mobile number and he successfully contacted his wife. The first sentence that Raymond said when he contacted the customer is that, “The number you gave me just now is your hubby’s, right?” The way he said that sentence is funny. I woke up and open my eyes instantly and smiled when he said that sentence.