I really feel like applauding some guys for being able to bear with the fickle-minded-ness of some girls. If I am a girl and I can hardly control my temper on these girls, I wonder how some guys are able to do that.
Tell me what you will feel when your (female) friends did that to you. I have 3 scenarios for you to consider.
First scenario: Your friend informed you that she do not want to go out tomorrow as she is very tired from going out for many days and wanted a break. Thus, she wants to postpone the outing to the following week. The outing was planned 1.5 weeks in advance.
Second scenario: Your friend suddenly informed you that she is unable to meet you for dinner less than 18 hours in advance due to a valid reason. However, the dinner was planned 2 to 3 weeks in advance. Followed by that, she keeps cancelling appointments with you. It has been this case for years and you have yet to meet her for dinner, no matter how advance (2 to 5 weeks) you booked a day from her.
Third scenario: Your friend is feeling too tired and do not want to see the helix bridge and night lights. She wants the outing to be solely spent on sitting at a place and chat. The itinerary of the outing was planned like 2 to 3 weeks in advance. She only informed me of the sudden change in less than 4 hours.
What will you reply when your friends keep changing their plans? Hello? You aren’t the only busy person in this world. I am also as busy as you, if not busier than you. On top of that, don’t give me excuses like… “You haven’t confirm with me.” When I already confirmed with you for a few times.
Some people are just out to test your patience. However, at the same time, since both of you are friends, what are you going to do?
Seriously, how will you feel if I keep doing that to you? It doesn’t happened once in a while, it has been occurring all the time during this holiday.
I really feel like giving her a piece of my mind but stopped as I do not want to engage in a quarrel with my friend. In such scenarios, apologies are not accepted, but it serves as a way to control my temper. If you don’t apologise, it is very likely that I will engage in a mini quarrel with you.
I doubt these scenarios will happened to the guys that these girls like.
Talk about biased behavior.
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